C.M. Eppes Middle School
Guidance Department

 

Bullying

 

AMERICA’S SAFE SCHOOLS WEEK, October 21-27, 2007

Common Forms of Bullying:

Verbal Bullying:
Direct Bullying - Taunting, teasing, name-calling/ Indirect Bullying - Spreading Rumors

Physical Bullying:
Direct Bullying - Hitting, kicking, shoving, destruction or theft of property/ Indirect Bullying - Enlisting a friend to assault someone for you

Non-verbal/ Non-physical Bullying:
Direct Bullying -Threatening, obscene gestures/ Indirect Bullying - Excluding others from a group, manipulation of friendships, threatening e-mail/IMs/text messages

Estimate of children involved in bullying (research done by Brenda High, Director, www.bullypolice.org):

  • N. Carolina Population 8,049,313
  • 17.7 – 1,424,728 children of School age 5 to 18
  • Victims 107,852
  • Victims/Bullies 22,511
  • Bullies 102,865
  • Total est. involved in bullying 233,228

Cyber Bullying: Breaking It Down:

Cyber Bullying is verbal harassment that occurs during online activities.
    Cyber Bullying can take many forms. These are a few:
    A threatening e-mailNasty instant messaging session
    Repeated notes sent to the cell phone, A website set up to mock others
    "Borrowing” someone’s screen name and pretending to be them while posting a message
    Forwarding supposedly private messages, pictures, or video to others
    Prevention Techniques: Avoiding Bullies Online:
    Don’t give out private information such as passwords, pins, name, address, phone number, school name, or family and friends’ names. This information can be used by bullies and other harmful people on the Internet. Don’t even reveal your password to your friends. They might reveal it or use it against you in a fight.
    Don’t exchange pictures or give out e-mail addresses to people you meet on the internet. Ask permission from parents when it is necessary to give such information.

    Don’t send a message when you are angry—it’s hard to undo things that are said in anger.

    Delete messages from people you don’t know, or those from people who seem angry or mean.

    When something doesn’t seem right, it probably isn’t. Get out of the site, chat, etc.

    Realize that online conversations are not private. Others can copy, print, and share what you say or any pictures you send. Be careful!
     
    Online Resources:

US Department of Health and Human Services offers flash movies, games, and information about bullying and how to prevent it http://stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov/index.asp

Youth Bullying
http://www.ama-assn.org/ama1/pub/upload/mm/39/youthbullying.pdf

Adolescent Bullying
http://www.ext.vt.edu/pubs/family/350-852/350-852.pdf

Bullying in Early Adolescence: The Role of the Peer Group
http://www.athealth.com/Consumer/disorders/Bullying%20in%20Adolescence.html

Put a Stop to Bullying Behavior
http://www.teengrowth.com/index.cfm?action=info_article&ID_article=1362

Educational Forum on Adolescent Health Youth Bullying
http://www.ama-assn.org/ama1/pub/upload/mm/39/youthbullying.pdf

Bullying: What Parents and Teachers Need to Know
http://www.focusas.com/Bullying.html

THE BULLYING CIRCLE: STUDENTS’ MODES OF REACTION / ROLES IN AN ACUTE BULLYNG SITUATION
http://www.psychologymatters.org/images/bullycircle.pdf

Cyber Bullying
http://www.cbc.ca/news/background/bullying/cyber_bullying.html

The Mean Kid: An Overview of Bully/Victim Problems and Research-based Solutions for Schools
http://darkwing.uoregon.edu/~ivdb/doc/mean_kid.pdf

Cyberbullying Information for Teens
http://www.stopcyberbullying.org/teens/index.html

Relational Aggression
http://www.relationalaggression.com/

Relational Aggression
http://www.spsk12.net/departments/specialed/Relational%20Aggression.htm